Conflict Is Not The Opposite Of Intimacy

By Robynne: Most of us were never taught how to experience healthy conflict. We were taught that conflict meant danger. Raised voices meant something was breaking. Disagreement meant love was being withdrawn. Another person’s disappointment meant we might be rejected, punished, or abandoned. So, we learned to avoid difficult conversations, smooth everything over, silence our read more…

When an Ex Comes Back: Love Or Pattern?

Person sits on a bench at sunset, watching ghostlike silhouettes of a couple holding hands over the sea, conveying memory or longing.

By Robynne: There are few experiences more emotionally charged than hearing from an ex-partner. Whether it arrives as a simple message, a casual conversation, or a deeper discussion about trying again, it has a way of stirring emotions we thought had settled long ago. The heart remembers differently than the mind. It remembers the laughter, read more…

Relationship Intimacy – How To Improve Communication

By Gertrude: The most intimate connection we have in a relationship is our voice. Where we share our thoughts and feelings as well as being listened to. When we talk about communication we often overlook the real skill of listening.  While we also think of our voice as verbalizing what is going on for us. read more…

Love, Technology And Why We Don’t Really Talk Anymore

By Psychic Patrick: Have you ever noticed how the more connected technologically we become as a society, the more disconnected from each other we tend to be on the more fundamental levels. This becomes rather obvious when observing the sphere of love and relationships. Which tend to be more unstable and less robust in modern read more…

Let’s Talk

By Audrey: When we’ve been vibing with someone after a few dates or even via social media and video chat, it can be very thrilling. This is the honeymoon stage in a new relationship. The butterflies are in full flutter during this magical time in new love. The next natural step is you both decide read more…

Do You Have A Project Or A Partner?

By Gertrude: Whoever said love wasn’t easy certainly knew what they were talking about. And in terms of that quite often we find ourselves in a situation where our partner or the person that we are having feelings for has become somewhat of a project.  This happens in a relationship, it can be extremely challenging. read more…

5 Communication Mistakes Everyone Makes In Love

By James: “Communication is the Key”. We hear it all the time. “Strong communication in a relationship is the key”. Yet, so many of us forget how to communicate, or maybe find that the communication is not clear, perhaps even lost. How many times have you asked; “Why haven’t they responded to my text?” or “They read more…

Love Letters

By Brenda: Communication between lovers has changed in the last fifty years and sometimes for the worst! The art of letter writing has gone away to be replaced by text messages, Instagram and Snapchat. Even emails are becoming outdated with all contact revolving around social media and various apps. Whole relationships are started through chats read more…