Are You Heart Broken?

By Gertrude: A broken heart isn’t just an emotional feeling. A broken heart is real. For many of us, it can take years to heal and mend. For others, it never does. Professionals now refer to broken heart syndrome as Takotsubo. It is considered to be triggered by intense physical or emotional stress. Broken heart read more…

Is Your Relationship Mercury In Retrograde?

By Gertrude:l I love Astronomy. Through it I pick up sentient insight into life events. Mercury in Retrograde is blamed for many things. Many of us look at it with trepidation. It is actually a time of great accomplishment. What you’ve been through. Having come this far. It is a time where we are being read more…

The Silent Treatment

By Gertrude: Silence speaks louder than words. It is still a form of communication. Is someone in your life giving you the silent treatment? Or are there other relationships you have disconnected. Stopped contact. Silence tells us so much more about that person. The main one being, really showing who they are. Now, that doesn’t read more…

Relationship Intimacy – How To Improve Communication

By Gertrude: The most intimate connection we have in a relationship is our voice. Where we share our thoughts and feelings as well as being listened to. When we talk about communication we often overlook the real skill of listening.  While we also think of our voice as verbalizing what is going on for us. read more…

Is Love Enough?

By Gertrude: Can we love one another like Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban, Is Love Enough? In my experience, the answer is NO. What we are being asked to do is to love ourselves equally.  Is there a recipe for love success? Yes there is, although it’s not infallible. The most important ingredient is self read more…

Let Go Of Expectations, But Not Your Dreams

By Gertrude: More often than not many of us spoil today, because we are worried about tomorrow. This sets us up for failure and frustration. Once we are frustrated it literally takes us in the opposite direction. Our perception of time and the cosmos actual time are very different and defining. Along with our expectations read more…

Are You Being Shelved?

By Gertrude: First, let me explain the term shelving in a relationship. The best description is when someone isn’t so hot and cold or back and forth. Generally the person shelving is consistent, in so far as how they treat you. However, what they do is only participate in conversations and dating when it suits read more…

How To Rebuild Your Relationship

By Gertrude: We have many types of relationships and for many of us, those relationships can improve or be detrimental to our lives. It is not always about the romantic aspect of your life because romantic relationships have other dimensions to it that are also important. It isn’t always getting back to the romantic in read more…

Do You Have A Project Or A Partner?

By Gertrude: Whoever said love wasn’t easy certainly knew what they were talking about. And in terms of that quite often we find ourselves in a situation where our partner or the person that we are having feelings for has become somewhat of a project.  This happens in a relationship, it can be extremely challenging. read more…

Does He/She Have Feelings For Me?

By Gertrude: Quite often when we are in the first stages of a relationship, we are unsure of where we stand with the person we are developing feelings for. It is not always easy to just ask flat out if they are interested or not. None of us likes rejection, so more times than not, read more…