Is The Person You Love In Another Relationship?

By Gertrude: For those of you who have fallen in love with someone who is in another relationship, or has left you for another relationship, this is a very difficult period. This article holds no judgments. It simply acknowledges the fact that infidelity exists and that all participants are human beings with emotions and triggers.   read more…

Why Your Ex Won’t Let You Go

By Gertrude: For those of you who are in an on-again-off-again relationship, many of you will find that just as you are determined to move on, they reach out and take you back into the relationship. This seems to be a never-ending cycle. It is draining, confusing and it hurts your heart. Let me say read more…

I Miss My Ex

By Gertrude: Going through a break-up is never easy. There are so many emotions as well as things we experience we never expected. For the most part, we do brace ourselves for the heartache. We know that it’s going to be difficult. If you are going through a breakdown of a significant relationship then this read more…

Coping With Post Traumatic Relationship Stress

By Gertrude: When we speak in terms of traumatic stress, often we first think of life and death situations. When we are grieving for a broken relationship, it is one of the most stressful times of our lives. Like the stages of grief, we experience stages when we are moving on from a relationship. It read more…

How To Read Your Love GPS

By Gertrude: Love is complicated and there is no real guide or that everyone reacts to a situation the same way. Each relationship is unique and as such should be treated as such.  Your Love GPS is your own personal perception and insights into what you want in a relationship. Often the trick is to read more…

How To Get Back On Track

By Gertrude: Firstly, I have some exciting news, I’ve recently qualified as a Psychologist, Couples and Family Counselor and Holistic Counselor. I began my journey to attain this when I was 18. At that time I met my future husband. When I told him I had been accepted into University to study. He looked at read more…

Emotional Jet Lag

By Gertrude: Emotional Jet Lag is where you are in different zones when it comes to your love timing. This can manifest in many ways, not just on a romantic level, but our work, our soul and spiritual paths.  If you are in a relationship or emotionally intimate where the other person isn’t coming forward read more…

Find Your Astronomical Star

By Gertrude: For me, affirmations are essential. Without them, I have less depth when it comes to connecting with my clients. Since I can remember the stars, especially held fascination for me. While we have the zodiac with 12 constellations, in fact there are 13. It is to Astronomy I go for our source of read more…

Old School Mediumship

By Gertrude: As a child growing up, it was common for me to join my grandmother and my great grandmother in spirit board and automatic writing techniques. They were very resourceful. They played cards and used them as messages, rolled dice for insight.  For many years, we have had celebrity mediums who are phenomenal. As read more…

These Things Happen When You Meet Your Soulmate

By Gertrude: The first thing that we need to know is that soul mates exist in all areas of our lives, people, pets, our connection to nature, the flowers and the trees.  It is an unfortunate truth that we can be with a soul mate however our connection is meant to be spiritual, rather than read more…