By Ann: Have you always thought your perfect match was out there somewhere and you kept missing each other in the revolving doors of life, then one day you briefly met when you were not even looking, and everything clicked and felt like you were meant to be with each other? You knew and understood each other, got each other and spent time building up your friendship, then the revolving doors took you both in different directions. Sadness enveloped you because there was no explanation. It just happened. You keep going through the doors looking, to no avail waiting for your soulmate.
Maybe you think you read the signs wrong, and he wasn’t the one. You just want to know why. Why did he get close to me then disappear? There are the occasional texts as he works his life and personal problems out. Do you wait or move on? That is the dilemma? You can’t hold on to someone to keep them; they have to want to be there. Revolving doors keep moving so maybe people keep missing each other. If you stay still that person may come back when it’s the right time.
Does the universe control this reunion if it’s meant to be and does love win? God is love and this quality is in all creation. Faith and trust will build love in us and attract love in our life. If you leave and he comes looking for you, will you miss each other again or will the universe reunite you. These are the questions going through your mind. You don’t want to keep going through life’s revolving doors, you want to settle and find love and you don’t want casual flings or liaisons which are shallow, and you think it would be better to be alone. You are not sure if you believe in soulmates anymore and think two people need to work things out, but it helps when you understand each other. Is there really a Mister or Miss right out there or do we just settle for near enough is good enough.
We are so busy in our lives, we sometimes don’t stop to smell the roses and miss out on the simple things in life and that special person can be right under your nose. When we are young, we just go with the flow and don’t always take relationships seriously and we are happy to rush through life. Mature people should be up front with each other and be honest with their intentions. If they don’t want a relationship, they should give the other person the opportunity to agree or disagree with the situation. Make your feelings known if you know what you want because this is honest and fair.
Are you tired of the revolving doors of life, then it is okay to just stop and watch the people going past you and you may meet like minded people who just want to take it easy? Or you can see where the doors take you and the experiences and people you meet along the way can be life lessons.
If someone makes an effort for you, it’s easy to wait for them compared to someone who just doesn’t care. This time allows you to evaluate how much you really like them or if it is just a temporary moment of passion. If they like you enough to hold on while they have issues to work out, this is a good way to test their character and for you to show your support. Should you see other people while you wait? That is up to you because they may or may not come back to you. If they are faithful and exclusive to you and have issues to work out, then you may feel the same way and will be patient for a short time. If they don’t fight for you and if you don’t feel special, you need to think of your self-respect and dignity and know your self-worth and determine if you give more with nothing in return.
Love & Light