Moving Through Loss

By Annelize: The moment we lose someone, the biggest loss is the sudden cutoff, the losing of an energy being we were connected to. This sudden loss, which was out of our control, makes us feel helpless, and without any control. The truth of relationships in our lives is that we tend to make everything read more…

Dear Woman

By Annelize: Every day I receive so many chats and calls from women about their failing love relationships. A breakup or an uncertain situation where they do not have any control. The main factors I noticed are: – Women tend to see themselves as the only ones having the problem or issue. They feel that read more…

The Small Little Moments

By Annelize: We tend to look at the bigger picture or goals in life. We focus on a new job, a new house, a new city, job, or school. The focus is also on the bigger issues and problems in life. We live for each new event, each new goal, and the latest thing ahead read more…

The Closed Ending Of My Relationship Book

By Annelize: To finally get to the end of a successful book, reading the very last part of the story can create ambivalent feelings in the reader. You may like and agree, usually when it ends in a fairy tale way of good happy endings, but sometimes endings can be sad and hard. Huge losses, read more…

Surprising Elements Of Self Love

By Annelize: I get it, self love, self care, self affirmations is overrated. These words have been thrown around and even used as selfish behavior. There are many articles about self love, and self care, but I want to look at it from a different perspective.¬† Digging deeper into ourselves is probably the most valuable read more…

Easter, The Celebration Of New Life And Birth

By Annelize: There are various different cultural connections to Easter. Some believe it originated from pagan festivities that are celebrated to welcome spring. In spring plants and trees become alive again, as well as new offspring arriving in the animal kingdom. The equinoxes and solstices were celebrated as sacred times. During Easter the spring equinox read more…

Unopened Suitcase

By Annelize: The bolted, weathered, chained, brown leathery suitcase concealed under my bed. What if we were all numb, apathetic, and emotionless human beings, moving around in robotic mode? Living a compartmentalized life was expected of me. I love to live a more rounded life believing everything intertwines then mixes to create the whole. The read more…

Resetting Life

By Annelize: Taking back your own life, taking responsibility for past failures and successes is not always easy. It is very difficult and so complicated. It is easier to blame someone else and forget about your failures. I guess we all had our issues these past months with 2020 throwing us a curve ball we read more…