By Ann: You can do anything once you put your mind to it; we are creators of our own destiny. When you feel down or upset, remember you are a winner. You are still here reading this article. You are breathing. Do not worry about the things that you do not have focus on the things that you do have. Be happy with the simple things in life. If you are unhappy in your relationship and you find it hard to move forward, then, ask yourself.
Do I deserve to be unhappy? Right now, you feel stuck and you would rather be unhappy and be alone. You are paying a high price for this because you will go into a state of anxiety, and then you put up with anything good and bad than to be lonely. Have you wanted to be with someone so bad and you cannot seem to get this to happen?
No matter what you do, even if the person is treating you badly and their moods are so inconsistent, this has a toll on you and your mental bodies. You start to think things and your self -worth drops and you feel you are not good enough because you choose to not move forward in fear you will be left all alone.
This is further from the truth; you will not be left alone. When you close one door, another one opens for you. Opportunities come when you at least expect them to. Do you feel stuck? Do you want to be happy? Do you want to be loved? Only you can do this for you. Then you attract the right person in your life. Why not be more deserving and kind to yourself, Trust is a big part of any relationship and if you cannot trust and you stay in the relationship you are making yourself miserable, this will take a toll on your health and once again you will feel stuck because you do not want to move forward away from something that is not good for you and this is your partner or friendship or career. Moving forward in life and making the changes to improve you; this gives you a good self-esteem and happiness and as well as a sense of fulfillment. You start to be positive and your life starts to change and all good things are drawn to you.
We can all get stuck in a rut and think there is no way out and we just put up with things rather than have the confrontation with the person and we just exist go to work, come home, be unhappy cannot stand to be around the person you are with because they make you unhappy. You are missing so much of life being stuck this way.
There is a way out. You just have to believe in yourself knowing you can do this and you deserve a happy life and a meaning full life with love and peace and happiness. If you love yourself enough, you would say enough is enough and I am not going to do this any longer for myself. Do not let life pass you by. The years pass by so fast.
You need to write a list of what makes you happy and what you need and want in this life and think positive and believe in your self-knowing you can accomplish anything you put your mind to.
You need to start somewhere and then tick off of the list everything you have accomplished to change any situation you are not happy in or with. Remember, you are not stuck if you have the determination and willpower. You can achieve anything that is for you to be the best you can be in this lifetime.
Hugs and Love,