3 Signs of Loss

By Gertrude: Are You Grieving the loss of a loved one here or passed? We can experience grief in all manner of ways. Some of grieve for those who have passed, and some grieve for the loss of those who are still here.

Mourning the loss of a loved one is one of the hardest things you will ever go through. The sense of grief is the symptom of loss. In life we lose many things. In fact, we can even lose ourselves.


1. Someone you loved has passed away.

2. The loss of a relationship.

3. The loss of yourself.

Grief and the reasons we experience it vary. For instance, when a parent passes and they have been someone who nurtured and nourished us. It can tear a hole in the fabric of our daily lives. However, when it comes to families, it is not always the case that we had a healthy relationship. Or that we had contact with them. Estrangements in families are common. Perhaps it is the case that there was no contact at all. So essentially you are grieving a relationship that you were never able to have.

There is nothing that can ease the way in which we physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally endure this type of heartache and pain.

As a medium, I have looked at physics to explain how our loved ones are able to communicate with us. We know scientifically that for every thought, deed and action before birth and after death our physical bodies have created light particles called biophotons. Which essentially are eternal. We know that bio photons communicate with the magnetic electrical field of our solar system. They pass on information.

This is what I refer to as remote viewing. And how I understand what happens to us when we are born to the ‘afterlife’ dimension. Right here, right now we are the proverbial chrysalis.

Like me, you too can tap into these frequencies. Use your intuition and be more aware of the signs, symbols and messages you are picking up.

If you are looking to connect with your loved ones. I find photos, which capture the photons and biophotons of our body and transpose them in the exact image to a piece of paper. Or in today’s modern world digitally. In fact how we send emails, how you are reading this now on the internet, is exactly what I’m referring to. Right here, right now, you and I are connecting through the very same process. Tap into that realm. And be open to your loved ones and the guidance they are giving you.

How to connect to your guides. What are the signs I should be looking for is a very common question I get when doing mediumship.

To explain how I do it. I am very straightforward. I get the name, date of birth and passing of the person you want me to connect to. You get to ask a question. About anything in your life or orbit that you need an answer to.

3 Signs that your loved one is around:

A basic way to recognize a sign, is for spirit to draw your attention to repetitive numbers. This can come in many forms. Especially with clocks and time. Seeing times like 11:11, 1:11 over and over again. Or sequenced numbers randomly pop up in your everyday life. Also significant numbers like dates of birth or house numbers.

Music, lyrics and words in conversations that have a special meaning. Or something that alerts your intuition.

Sentient messages are ones of either ‘knowing stuff’. You could be thinking of someone or an issue and not long afterwards. That person or an affirmation will come you way. It’s that.. “I was only just thinking about that. We are finding it more and more on social media as well. Which of course is the perfect carrier of photons and information.

For those of you who have someone that they dearly miss or are mourning for the loss of what they feel they didn’t have. Know that they hear you and understand that you still need them in your lives. They want you to know they still are. Now, closer as they are only a thought away.

If you are experiencing any of the 5 stages of grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. It could be that you are stuck at a particular stage. Don’t hesitate to ask for support.

For those of you who are grieving the loss of someone who is still here. The extra ingredient you need is forgiveness. You owe it to yourself. Once we let go of any unrealistic expectations and accept that the realistic expectations may not have been afforded to us. We then open ourselves to the healing that we deserve. Be patient and kind to yourself. All that you need is within you.


Love and Light,


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