By Ann: Often the case, maybe we give a lot of energy into the things we do not have. Why do you live for a man or a woman or for material things? Because it is called conditioning to your needs; mental, psychical and emotional. We always think of the things we do not have, not the things we already have. Do you feel you are always chasing after something, and you feel you cannot obtain it?
It is not what happens to you it is how you handle it; you do not have to be treated badly by your children, friends and family. You have a choice who you have in your life or do you put up with being abused and judged in fear of loss, you need to let go and take your power back and say enough is enough. Love is unconditional if know one can accept you as you are, this means they cannot accept themselves, control plays a big part if you allow someone to control you then you lose your power and energy to the person that is controlling you.
So many parents live in fear they will lose their children if they do not please them and give them what they want. In this world we live in, children revolt against parents and parents’ revolt against children through expectations and control and judgment. In my years of being a life coach so many parents have been hurt by their children. How the child judges the parents, keep in mind there is no handbook in being a good parent. We have learnt the traits through generations gone by.
This can cause separation between parent and child, often the case is parents can only do their best in protecting their children, then this can be the case that the child takes this as abuse not understanding the parent is fearful of loss. And only wants the best for their family. There has been so many parents disowned by their children and parents disowning their children, a vicious circle. This is indeed love gone out of the window. The child thinks they are right and so does the parents, then, years have gone by and they do not see each other. Who is responsible? This is a good question. Please let me point out from the beginning of time this has happened in the bible.
“Do you think that I have come to give peace on earth? No, I tell you, but rather division. For from now on in one house there will be five divided, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”
Jesus came to save us all. This is not about religion. Jesus was tested for 40 days and 40 nights by the devil and he offered him the whole world to act a bow of worship to him. Lucifer could not offer the world if he did not have it. We live in troubled times. Of course, we have free will to choose good or bad behavior. Please keep in mind who is ruling the world. The biggest trickster lucifer, known as the devil. He creates separation, do not blame yourself if this is happening to you with one of your children who has turned against you. And children do not blame yourself for turning against your parents. I did four years of demonology to learn both sides of the fence Angels and demons. Do not live in an illusion and believe they do not exist. Because they do. Gain your power back and love yourself and accept the things you cannot change. Keep in mind this is happening all over the world and people are suffering. You need to make the choice to either serve the light or darkness you cannot serve two masters. Jesus Christ served God and suffered for us and was crucified for our sins God gave his only son so that we may have life.
Jesus Christ gained his power back on the cross when he was crucified now, he is in the heavens on the right-hand side of God. He is always ready to help if you ask. And believe in him. The power of prayer moves mountains and gives you inner peace.
Love and Light,