Breaking Up, A New Beginning.

By Francis: What a challenging year 2017 has brought us and what has occurred, we can no longer change, but asses and move on hopefully into a new and bright year. Christmas can be a stressful time and sometimes can be the cause of the breakdown of relationships. If someone has experienced this, there is light and love for the future to look forward to. 


The Two of Cups. Reversed. 


So, you had the love, the joy, the unity and it all felt great, but how much of it was real? Some of us do not know what the other person is really feeling and when there is discord between emotional communication, then there might be a situation which happens leaving one of you broken and confused. Not all people are looking for a lifelong partner and maybe they just want to have a bit of fun in the meantime. We cling desperately to ideals convincing ourselves that we have found ‘the one’. It usually is the case that not everyone is feeling this and that’s when the unity of the two of cups becomes defunct.  

The Tower. 


Things fall apart, our life is shattered, we can’t go on, nothing seems right anymore. However, this could also be a good thing. If a relationship was supposed to work out it would have done as both people would have made the sufficient effort to maintain it. It takes more than one person to keep things moving. If you have suffered a break up you might feel like a piece of you is missing, but for something good to happen, we often need to get rid of negative emotional blackmailers and users before we can be happy.  It’s a cliché at times, but removing the clutter from our hearts makes way for peace and fulfillment and maybe the chance, once mended, to find a better partner. 

The Ace of Swords.


So, moving into the first few days of a bright new year and new beginnings, there is a chance for light to enter our lives after the celebrations have finished. Try to look forward to change and a clear mindset and most definitely learn from the mistakes of the past. It is through experience that we start to understand what has worked and what hasn’t. Break this cycle, do not fall back into darkness. Enter your new life with hope and not regret. May everyone have a special start in January and the space in your life for a new loved one to enter. Happy New Year!! 


Love and Light,





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