By Delphia: Being Mister or Miss Right in dating is a rare thing. Most people would prefer to be just another guy or girl in their dating pool. They have their own standards for who they want to date and what kind of relationship they want to have. While there are some great guys in the world, chances are that you don’t fit in with their group.
If you find that you are on the opposite end of the spectrum, it’s time for you to ask yourself some questions. First of all, are you wasting your time dating someone who doesn’t really want to be in a relationship? Or are you someone who is spending too much time single-handedly?
Are you someone who wants the whole rush of dating and being in a relationship so bad that you are only looking for sex? Maybe you have a problem with communication. Either way, you are better off not taking part in online dating until you get more familiar with the protocols and skills that actually work in the real dating scene. Too many guys get involved with dating online, because they are so insecure and desperate to get a date. They do this because the Internet allows them to meet women in countries that they wouldn’t normally get to know without some kind of travel.
Now, here’s where things can get tricky. The Internet makes it easy for Mister Wrong to pose as Mister Right. He might be good in every way, but you still wouldn’t know if he was really the right person for you unless you were willing to make an assessment. Unfortunately, many women simply won’t go for anyone who isn’t honest about his true desires.
When you meet someone in person, you will be able to judge whether he has the hots for you by his looks and mannerisms. By examining those clues, you should be able to figure out whether he is the type to make a move on you. It is necessary to take time to analyze whether or not he really wants to be with you, but once you determine his honest intentions, then you can move on and make plans to meet and get to know each other.
The next question is, “Are you Mister or Miss right?” Hopefully, you have figured out the answer to this question already. If you haven’t, then the next step in the dating process is to get honest about what you are looking for in a relationship and determine exactly what qualities you want in a man. Then, if he comes up with those characteristics, then you can be sure that you have found your prince charming. But remember, there are plenty of men who are not honest about what they want in a relationship and end up making the wrong choice for their female partners. If you want to avoid these dating mistakes, then you need to follow these tips and get a good idea of how to figure out whether you are Mr. or Miss Right!
Love and Light,