How To Heal A Broken Heart

By Rani:Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you – all of the expectations, all of the beliefs – and becoming who you are.”

So How do you really Heal a Broken Heart?

Put yourself first:


In any case, this would have ended for you as a result of putting yourself first. Conflicts and misunderstandings occur because someone didn’t see the other person’s point of view when there was a conflict or misunderstanding. Therefore, it is imperative for you to rest assured knowing that putting yourself first is going to quickly reveal the true colors of someone else if you do so. When their color does not match your own, it is going to be very difficult to make it work through and through if their color is not the same.

It is important to remember that when you are in a relationship where you are not able to put yourself first, you end up losing yourself. As a result, the purpose of the connection at hand is defeated.

See the light in the dark situation:

It is very typical for us to only look at the outcome of the situations in which we find ourselves. In the end, all connections become worth it when you realize how much you learned from them and how much self-growth you experienced as a result of them. There is a beginning, a middle, and an end to every movie. There was more to your relationship than just its outcome. I believe there is always a lot to learn when it comes to love, even if it was a horrible connection. It is important to remember to look at the good parts of what happened rather than only the bad parts.

Get back to your roots:

There is a need for you to remember who you are. In many cases, when we become engrossed in a relationship we tend to lose sight of the parts of ourselves that actually made that person fall in love with us in the first place. As you begin to ground yourself, it is important that you go back to your roots in order to find out who you really are. Take up a hobby that you used to enjoy and start working out and expanding your horizons by getting back into the hobbies that you were previously interested in.

If you can attach you can detach:

Don’t let yourself get caught up in the idea that you can’t detach yourself from the person with whom you were attached. As you were able to fall in love, you are able to fall out of love as well. The fact that one connection did not blossom is not an indication that another will not succeed. If you can become the person you were before, you will be able to find someone to share your life with. In the beginning, someone fell in love with who you were, and someone else will fall in love with you again in the future. Whenever we face self-doubt in this department, we tend to believe in those doubts if we are overcome with them. It is important to remember that love is a broad spectrum and that it is fragile and complex at the same time.

There is something about the little things in your life that make you who you are and make your life worth living that can make people fall deeply in love with you. In order for you to attract a worthy candidate, you have to be remain unique and positive.

Remember why it ended:

Because of the fact that it was not supposed to be, it ended. As long as it was meant to be, everything would have worked out in the end. Keeping this in mind, you will be able to remember that your soulmate is somewhere out there, waiting for you. You are not going to be able to find them faster by spending your time reminiscing about a failed connection. You will be able to achieve your goals if you keep an open mind and an open heart.

Be kind to yourself:

You should not beat yourself up about the parts of you that were not accepted by them. You don’t have to worry about being hung up if parts of your personality are not accepted by them for as long as those parts are true to you. The goal of finding someone who will love those parts of you is what we are looking for. I encourage you to be kind to yourself and to keep your head up because love is unpredictable. With divine timing, it will find you at the right time.


“You have the power to heal your life, and you need to know that. We think so often that we are helpless, but we’re not. We always have the power of our minds…Claim and consciously use your power.”
― Louise L. Hay

Love and Light,


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