By Sarah: Obviously, the first step in falling in love is to love yourself first. Take the time every day to tell yourself how beautiful you are in the mirror each morning. The quicker you love yourself the quicker you will have someone else fall in love with you.
To fall in love, you need to let go of the past. This means taking some time to lie on your bed – close your eyes – and remember relationships that you have had before. Where you have felt pain, now offer forgiveness. Understand that everything that you went through happened to bring you to where you are now – on the brink of great love.
To welcome change into your life in the form of new love, I would suggest moving things around your home like ornaments and pictures. This welcomes in fresh new energy and a new cycle will then begin. Change your regular brand of washing powder or tea or coffee and change the route you would normally go to the shops or to work.
If you are in the process of a separation from your spouse or present relationship, it is possible to rekindle the love you have with them just by taking a deep breath – and being nice. There is probably so much you need to speak about and discuss, but that can wait until a later date. For now, just focus inwards and stop sending texts or calls to the person you are estranged from. Your journey now is for the next three weeks to turn inwards. Work out how you could be a better partner and stop putting energy into what they did wrong.
If there is violence in any shape or form, or addiction to drugs or alcohol – you need to let the person go so that they can get the help that they need. The person that you actually know is very lost and they will only find the help they need by reaching rock bottom. By always being there for them you are enabling them to continue with their toxic behavior so walk away from now and just focus on you.
The minute you focus on yourself and not on the other person, you bring the powerful energy of love back into your own life. Your thoughts become more rationalized as they work for the best in your own favor, and as such your reality will start to balance out.
This is now the time where you stop and connect with your Angels. You may not at this stage be able to feel or see them, but they are there working behind the scenes, steering your life in the way that you chose through your thought patterns. The best way to do this is to light a beautiful candle in the color of your choice and sit on the side of your bed with hands together and head bowed. Close your eyes and simply ask them to guide you to the love of your life as you are now ready. Thank them for now showing you the way forward and Bless them.
When you open your eyes everything will seem quite bright to you as the Angels would have opened your eyes to gain second sight. You now need to take a deep breath and relax. All you have to do is open your eyes and ears to what’s going on around you in the world and you will soon experience your life being guided by a force that you cannot physically see with your eyes and yet you know something is driving your life forward and is showing you the way.
This three week journey of turning within can kick start the journey towards the most momentous love relationship of your life, not just with a significant other but also with yourself. Three weeks of your life to reset your attitudes towards love and for you to become a better person and to attract into your life the person you will spend the rest of your life with.
If you have any relationship issues or soulmate questions, please come to me and I will help you see the way forward in life. I have 30 years experience in helping people with their love connections – so this time let me help you!
Love and Light,