Co-Parenting With A Narcissist

By Sarah: Narcissists can be seen as dark walkers—souls who have yet to confront their inner shadows and step into the light.

Co-parenting with such individuals after divorce can be a harrowing experience, as they often seek to draw you into their darkness, manipulating and draining your energy. Disconnected from the positive light of truth, they thrive on the attention they extract from others, perpetuating a cycle of manipulation and control.

Their insatiable need to feel superior often leads them to belittle and undermine those around them, including their own children. As we move through this pivotal era, the separation between truth and illusion becomes more evident. Those who have journeyed through their own dark nights of the soul emerge with a deeper understanding, able to discern the vibrations of authenticity from the hollow echoes of deception. Today’s world is a landscape of energy, where the true nature of each soul is felt rather than seen.

Recognizing the Narcissist’s Energy

In this age of heightened awareness, you will become more attuned to the presence of narcissists in your life. Their energy is unmistakable—heavy and draining—as they continue to evade their inner shadows. Drawn to the light in others, they seek to siphon energy to sustain their false sense of self. However, as we transition into a new era of rising collective consciousness, their influence begins to wane.

A narcissist’s jealousy and insecurity often manifest in cruel, cutting remarks, like the cold words of a mother who, after her daughter’s first fashion show, simply said, “You could have done better.” This toxic energy is palpable, and it is crucial to protect yourself and your children from its influence. Co-parenting with a narcissist requires strength, strategy, and a steadfast focus on the well-being of your children, knowing that their other parent may use them as pawns in a twisted game. Some narcissistic parents may even emotionally abandon their children, using them as props for sympathy while treating them as mere objects behind closed doors.

A narcissist demands constant adoration, and if you do not fit into their fantasy, they will erase you from their reality. Teenagers and older children often reject this false narrative, which can lead to painful estrangement. Your role is to help your children heal from these deep wounds, guiding them with love and compassion.

Protecting Your Energy

To shield yourself from the draining energy of a narcissist, call upon Archangel Gabriel:

“Archangel Gabriel, grant me strength and protection. Surround me with your light, so that the darkness of others may not touch me. Keep me centered in truth and love, and let their negativity pass through me without harm.”

In your interactions with the narcissist, remain calm and emotionless. Document everything, as this may protect you and your children in the future. Limit contact to written communication, ensuring that every word you send is free from emotion or vulnerability.

You must be a strong, stable force in your children’s lives, offering them a healthy example to follow. Though you may not receive gratitude or acknowledgment, your efforts will provide them with a foundation of love and integrity. Be honest with them, helping them understand right from wrong, and encourage them to build the confidence to stand up for themselves.

Staying Focused on Your Higher Purpose

Remember, the narcissist will do everything in their power to hurt you and your children, but you must stay focused on your higher purpose. Be prepared for the challenges ahead, knowing that your love and commitment to your children will ultimately lead them to the light.

This path is often stony and lonely, but trust that your children will one day see the truth and recognize your unwavering love. Walk in the light, and know that you are not alone. Surround yourself with those who uplift your spirit, and never allow the dark walkers to pull you into their abyss. They are empty souls, lost in their illusions, and their power over you only exists if you give it to them.

The Age of Aquarius: Rising Above the Shadows

As the world shifts, it is no longer divided by political parties, countries, or teams. Instead, it has split into two realms—those who carry the light of truth and those who remain lost in the shadows. The Age of Aquarius brings with it a heightened awareness of the energies that surround us. This time of spiritual awakening calls for those who have faced their darkness and embraced the light to stand strong and resilient. Light-bearers are no longer swayed by the illusions of the dark walkers, for they have seen beyond the veil. They understand that the true battle is not of flesh and blood, but of spirit and energy.

As you navigate this new world, trust in your inner knowing. The truth will always resonate with a higher frequency, while deception and narcissism vibrate lower, weighed down by unhealed wounds. Walk confidently on your path, knowing that you are part of a great awakening, a time when the light of truth will shine brighter than ever before.

Conclusion

In these times, stay grounded in the light. Surround yourself with those who uplift your spirit and seek the truth in all things. The Age of Aquarius calls us to rise above the shadows, to embrace the higher consciousness that is emerging, and to walk fearlessly into the light.

I specialize in narcissistic abuse recovery, offering guidance in both mental health and spiritual energy protection. With the experience of raising seven children, I have an immense amount of wisdom to pass on to younger women and parents who need help dealing with these cruel and manipulative shadows. Reach out, and let me help you navigate the challenging path of co-parenting with a narcissist.