Everywhere I look someone has a partner, why not me??
First of all, everyone does not have a partner and the couples that you do see are mostly marriages/ relationships of convenience that are neither healthy of happy. Statistics don’t lie…”one of two marriages end in divorce.” Why is this?? Why do all the songs on the radio and the love stories make us buy into the fact we NEED to have someone?? The answers are much more complex than society would ever like you to know. Let me fill you in
After studying the psychological makeup of humans for many years, working in counseling as well as doing thousands of healings/readings and being married myself, I consider myself quite knowledgeable about this topic. Yes many bruises on my heart getting it right, but as I learn then I can teach others. Every Soul does seek to connect with its “other half”. Each of us has another part that is the perfect balance of either male or female, yin or yang to ourselves. When we incarnate into this earth plane we are separated from the other half of our soul. We spend lifetimes longing and yearning for him or her.
What many of us are not experienced enough to learn is that we only get the gift of uniting with our Twin Flame or Other Half when we have done our own soul work. The gift of Twin Flame relationships not only benefits the couple, but all of humanity is Blessed by their Union. This is why we must make sure to find our passion, our calling which is the reason we incarnated. We ALL have one. It is spiritual because this purpose helps the world become a better place. This is the key to attracting your other half.
The sad part is most of us are told to get an education, find a career and make money, but rarely are we told to find our Bliss. Our bliss is the part that gets excited about a certain topic or area of study and we buy books take classes and end up doing jobs related to that field. It’s not about the money, however if we do what we love the money will always follow. This is because when we are following our bliss the Universe starts to open doors because this not only helps us but will indeed create a happier and healthier world.
Many people waste entire lifetimes in the pursuit of money and are quite lost. I ask them if they are doing what they love. More times than not the answer is “no”. Those same people are desperately looking for a partner or wanting to get back with the “ex”. Why do so many want to repeat a bad pattern? This is because inside of themselves they are not fulfilled and hoping that another will bring that part to them. This is just the opposite of what happens. Two unhappy or unfulfilled people make up one whole partnership of unhappiness.
Intimate relationships will never work with another until we are fine being alone. Until we truly enjoy our own company. When we find and pursue what our purpose is our bodies literally start vibrating an energy that our Twin can feel. Even if he or she is on the other side of the planet, this energy will draw them towards us, but ONLY if they are also loving themselves, following their purpose and giving back to the world.
First love MUST be love of oneself! Learning your strengths and weaknesses takes a lifetime of soul work. Eating healthy foods, staying away from addictive tendencies, doing work that helps others even if it’s volunteering. We must make the sacrifices of not being a part of a materialistic society, instead creating or being a part of systems and environments that truly help the world to heal.
The couples that really work, the relationships we all admire and wish we had and want to be like are the ones that truly dedicated their lives to understanding who they were BEFORE the entered into a relationship. If you are lacking….you will indeed attract another person who is lacking. If you are productive, confident and happy with yourself you will attract the same. The Universe will indeed test us to make sure we are confident by sending us the wrong ones a few times to see if we can walk away and not settle. The little signs are always there however so many of us were too needy to listen. Soul Mates is the term everyone used for years to describe Twin Flames.
These are the relationships we had in other lifetimes that had drama and we meet them again in this lifetime. It feels wonderful at first you feel like you have known them forever at first meeting. Then as time move on and all hell breaks loose and we are wondering what the heck happened. Twin Flames are a spiritual Union. Yes the passion will be there but you will feel you have your best friend. A Twin is the other half of YOU!
Make no mistake, very few will ever connect or unite with their Twin in this lifetime because they have not done their own work first. They are not willing to put in the time and dedication to truly know themselves. No one else is going to heal that part of you. So if you are feeling “why didn’t this last with someone?” Why didn’t they stay or love me? The first clue for you is….how much do I love myself? What am I doing to stay busy and productive in my life that benefits the world in some way?
Twin Flame couples are very rare because so many people want the party life…or the materialistic life. Your Twin, like you, must be honoring themselves first and then honoring the highest and best good for humanity with what they do as a career or hobby. When you both live this way, your union will be so powerful.
Remember if you are feeling lost, you will attract other lost souls. If you are feeling empowered you will attract your Twin. The way to love yourself is to do what you love. What you love doing will build your confidence and the reward will be far greater than wealth or money